Like any man I love a beautiful woman. Some men notice the body of a woman first. Some men notice the lovely face. But over the years I have met beautiful black women at the bookstore,grocery store,concerts,festivals,schools,movie theaters and malls. Sometime I would meet black women that had an amazing body and a gorgeous face. But after getting to know them I found out they had a ghetto mentality. I used to know a black female coworker that was very attractive. Then I saw her white husband pick her up from work one day. Another coworker told me that she can’t stand black men and worships white men. Needless to say,I was immediately turned off! Her attractiveness quickly disappeared. So you can’t judge a woman just on being beautiful. But I’ve also ran into black women who sport their natural hair and wearing Afrocentric clothing and beads. And see them with their white boyfriends! What the hell is that?? That’s a totally contradiction in my mind. There are also black men who claim to be Afrocentric that date white women too. This is a very backwards mentality. I don’t see the point of being so-called conscious or “woke” but still dating white people. Obviously they aren’t “woke” enough. I will admit that I do love seeing black women in head wraps and Afrocentric clothing. Sometimes conscious sistas are made fun of in the black community. They are sometimes seen as a women who drink herbal tea,wear natural hair,vegetrarian,use shea butter and reads books on black history and culture. But to be honest,I don’t have a problem with any of those things. As a matter of fact I think a woman’s mind is what’s most attractive. I think intelligence is extremely sexy. I guess you could say I’m a sapiosexual. A woman with true knowledge of self and love for her people is a real turn on. Mainly because when you first meet someone there’s the immediate physical attraction. And there can be amazing chemistry. But when looking for a long term relationship you have to look a bit deeper. In my opinion,character lasts longer then chemistry.