Another racist incident? In America?? What a shock.lol Maybe black people need to support their own businesses more often. That way we’re not begging to spend money with our oppressors so much. Here’s a link to black owned coffee and tea shops. Support black businesses! https://shoppeblack.us/2018/04/black-owned-coffee-tea-starbucks-alternatives/
I wanted to make a video to show some appreciation to all the people I’ve met in cyberspace. Like most people I’ve had ups and downs in life. But even when I was feeling down a lot of you helped uplift my spirits. And I’ve learned so much from many of you. Many of you have shared information with me that I never knew. And hopefully I’ve done the same for you. That’s all I ever wanted to do. I never started blogging to be Mr. Popular. I don’t do this to be some kind of conscious celebrity. I have strong opinions and I’ve actually lost subscribers because of my views. But at least I’m honest about my feelings. I love my people and I just want them to realize we are in a real war at the moment. I just try to bring them information that will elevate their consciousness and see through the lies. So this video is long overdue. To all the kind brothers and sisters I’ve chatted with on WordPress,Youtube and Twitter. I also want to thank all the people who reblogged and shared my posts on Instagram and Facebook. All your hard work is not going unnoticed. I appreciate all the love. I just wanted to say thank you!
The majority of gym goers experience apprehension for one reason or another. In one study, nearly 65% of women admit to avoiding the gym due to anxiety or fear of being judged. Some people are better at hiding it, and other people have been able to move on from their insecurities. However, the same study found that you’re about twice as likely to feel like you’re being judged, than you are to actually be judged.
Chances are: unless someone is making a point of making you uncomfortable, they aren’t judging you at all. You could actually be their source of motivation!
Remember why you’re going to the gym, and write down your goals.
Whether you’re trying to get in better shape for a specific event or making a dedicated effort to take control of your health, write down your “why”. Avoiding illness? Class reunion coming up? Wedding? Making sure you’re healthy enough to be there for your loved ones? What is your Big Why?
Whatever the reason, write it down and put your “why” somewhere you can see it regularly.
Then, set SMART goals and refer to them regularly. SMART goals are:
This is a proven system that you can apply to almost any aspect of your life. You can find a fitness-specific template here, or get creative and make your own. Make sure you have short-term and long-term goals.
Reminding yourself why you need to go to the gym and having set goals and timelines will keep you focused. You’ll be less likely to talk yourself out of the gym if you remember why you need to go.
Unless you live in a very rural or isolated area, chances are you have several gym options to choose from. Price, hours of operation, and location will all play a role in your decision – but those shouldn’t be the only factors. Some gyms cater to hardcore fitness enthusiasts, while others specifically target the average Joe. There are even female-only gyms!
Make an appointment for a tour of the facility. Try to go during the time of day you expect to be exercising to get an idea of how many people will be there. Do they offer a free consultation or a trial membership for free? If so, take advantage of it to familiarize yourself with the equipment and personnel.
A gym’s culture and atmosphere can vary a lot from location to location and even by the time of day. You’ll just need to do some research to get started.
For more tips on choosing the right gym, give this article a quick read.
There is strength in numbers! Having a workout partner increases your odds of success in SO MANY ways! First of all, you’re less likely to bail on a workout if you’re meeting someone. Secondly, unless you’re at vastly different fitness levels, you’re both going to be struggling together.
Chances are that you know someone who is in the same spot as you are, fitness-wise. If not, ask the gym manager if anyone is looking for a workout buddy. Make a commitment to each other and yourselves to hold each other accountable. You’ll feel more comfortable when you’re not alone, and you can cheer each other on.
Another great place to find a workout buddy and make friends is in the exercise classes offered by your gym.
When you fail to plan, plan to fail. If you walk into the gym without a plan of action, you’ll probably spend most of your time there deciding what to do than actually working out. This will only make you feel more self-conscious.
Use a workout journal, an app on your phone, or download a template from the internet. Find a plan that is realistic, but challenging given your current level of fitness. Some gyms even have mobile apps specific to their equipment and locations.
Article by Ajima Jackson
Like any man I love a beautiful woman. Some men notice the body of a woman first. Some men notice the lovely face. But over the years I have met beautiful black women at the bookstore,grocery store,concerts,festivals,schools,movie theaters and malls. Sometime I would meet black women that had an amazing body and a gorgeous face. But after getting to know them I found out they had a ghetto mentality. I used to know a black female coworker that was very attractive. Then I saw her white husband pick her up from work one day. Another coworker told me that she can’t stand black men and worships white men. Needless to say,I was immediately turned off! Her attractiveness quickly disappeared. So you can’t judge a woman just on being beautiful. But I’ve also ran into black women who sport their natural hair and wearing Afrocentric clothing and beads. And see them with their white boyfriends! What the hell is that?? That’s a totally contradiction in my mind. There are also black men who claim to be Afrocentric that date white women too. This is a very backwards mentality. I don’t see the point of being so-called conscious or “woke” but still dating white people. Obviously they aren’t “woke” enough. I will admit that I do love seeing black women in head wraps and Afrocentric clothing. Sometimes conscious sistas are made fun of in the black community. They are sometimes seen as a women who drink herbal tea,wear natural hair,vegetrarian,use shea butter and reads books on black history and culture. But to be honest,I don’t have a problem with any of those things. As a matter of fact I think a woman’s mind is what’s most attractive. I think intelligence is extremely sexy. I guess you could say I’m a sapiosexual. A woman with true knowledge of self and love for her people is a real turn on. Mainly because when you first meet someone there’s the immediate physical attraction. And there can be amazing chemistry. But when looking for a long term relationship you have to look a bit deeper. In my opinion,character lasts longer then chemistry.